When I first started out many moons ago there was not the level of help and advice for girls as there is now. Fortunately with the rise in forums and chat rooms there has become friendly corners of escorting related websites where any newbies can gather advice.

I am regularly approached by new escorts or girls thinking of joining this industry. I have decided to put together some of my tips and will update them as necessary. There are alot of people out there that will pray on the inexperience of a newbie, con them in to offering more services than they are happy with, under charge for their time, companies that will overcharge for their services.

My advice to any girl considering joining my world is think it through very carefully before making any rash decision. As a 28 yr old woman I would advise women under 25 yrs old to hold fire. I was a mature woman and alot older than my 22 yrs of age when I first entered this world but nothing could have prepared me for some of the brutality that is in it. Don't get me wrong I love what I do but it has taken years off some not very nice comments to learn how to handle forums. I found turning 25 that woman become more comfortable in who they are and know their own mind and body. It is a huge decision to make that will affect the rest of your life, it is a decision that you need to decide once you have weighed up all the arguements.

FAMILY/FRIENDS. Someone needs to know what you do in case anything goes wrong on a job. Even if you only tell one friend there is nothing stopping them blabbing. Are you prepared to face the full out if your family ever found out? It might not even be your friend that tells all. Clients have been known to go to extreme lengths to find out your personal details and use that to their advantage.

SEX/RELATIONSHIPS. As much as I love the freedom that my line of work gives sexually it will affect how I have future relationships. I find that over five years on when I have sex in my personal life it is to a work like schedule. No matter how hard I try the motions are still in my head. It can be hard for future partners or current partners to stand by you when they know the truth about what you do/have done. Even the understanding partners who claim to not be bothered can eventually bear a grudge and it is a nice one to throw at you in an arguement.

FUTURE EMPLOYMENT. Onc you have tasted the freedom of being self employed and the ability to have a higher earning power it is something very hard to go back to. How will you cover the tracks on your CV? Are your tastes able to revert back to your old life? There will always be the risk that an employer may find out your secret or a colleague may have booked you once........Trust me I have been there. It was only last summer that my ex boss from a few years back booked me, fortunately a different hair colour and a heaving clevage protected me from any embarrassment that could have been caused.

INCOMINGS/OUTGOINGS. So you may have looked at other escorting sites and seen that you can have a high earning capacity but you need to take in to account that you can't work 24/7 and sometimes the work just wont be there, unlike your bills that wont go away. You need to have a back up for these days, weeks or even months. Like every business we have peaks and drops. And we do not get sick pay either. Whilst it may look like you can earn huge amounts you will soon also learn that you need to develop an extent of vanity that you may not have already had. Your body needs to be well kept, this can include hair laser removal rather than shaving and waxing, it could be regular manicures and pedicures, hair treatments, possibly tanning, more gym visits, and of course the essential work supplies. Not every woman is perfect nature'sway, they do need the odd bit of help here and there, even if it is extra make up. Be prepared to spend longer primping and preening.

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